Micah 6:8
Proverbs 16:17-19
Yes, your life matters.
Some of you are still sheltering in place, but fear not: I'm here to keep you sane and entertained.
One could hardly ask for much more than that, now could one?
On this date, 28 October1964, the 100th episode of “The Dick Van Dyke Show” aired. Jacki and I always thought Dad and Dick Van Dyke were very similar, although I don't remember Dad ever tripping over an ottoman when he came home. (Did you know there were two versions of that opening? One where he trips and one where he steps around it. They randomly rotated the openings each week. Pretty fun.)
Anyway, seeing that in a "this day in history" listing made me think (duh) of Dad, and I was originally going to save this for a post when we got closer to a memorial service, but since I have no idea when that will actually happen (and I like this piece) I decided to go ahead and post this now.
It was originally written when Dad's father died back in 1983, but I've used it quite a few times since.
For
Grandpa
Suddenly
we are without you:
Without
your life and laughter.
And
yet; we are not less,
The
world is not less:
Where,
then, is the loss?
Deep
within us all,
At
the core of each of us,
In
the hearts of those you love, and who love you,
There
is still your laughter, your life, your light:
Where,
then, is the loss?
We
weep for ourselves,
For
our family and friends who feel a loss;
At
times we think we weep for you.
But
you are with God, with Christ:
Where,
then, is the loss?
What
is lost has yet to come:
The
beauty and the wonder we'll long to share with you,
The
children who'll not hear your laugh, not see your light.
But
through our lives, our love, and laughter, they'll know yours:
Where,
then, is the loss?
We
weep at our pain,
At
our bewilderment at your death.
And
yet with you, for you, we must rejoice!
You
have left pain behind, and fear and longing as well.
Where,
then, is the loss?
What
is lost is the easy affection we thought would never leave.
What
is lost is your smiling face each evening, each morning.
What
is lost is myriad things we wouldn't believe could go.
But
realizing this much, we realize more:
There
is no loss – there is only Love.
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by Charlie van Becelaere, administered by Grand Teuton Press, all
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Keep Calm and Don't Stay Away.
I'll be back tomorrow.
The mental health issues related to our lockdown and the pandemic are especially hard for people with depression. NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness, has a 24 hour helpline: 800-950-6264.